Sick And Tired

to be honest 5 out of the 7 days through the week I wake up feeling like I am the only person on earth! Its quiet and still no noise, only the sound of me breathing. I go to work and every day my co-workers always talk about the fun they had last night and sometimes asked why didnt I come and I always answer you didnt invite me. I'm not going nowhere I not really wanted, just to be the guy you crack jokes on or the only one there with no girl to even speak of. I wont have a good time like that. I have been single now for over 3yrs and Chris Rock said it best "Either your married and bored, or single and lonley! aint no happiness nowhere. I refuse to be content with my situation of being single I'm not the type to jump into something just to say I have someone and I have widen my scope of people I would date but like always no one wants a guy thats not attractive by "Societies" standard. Although I am hopeful that I will find someone for me, but me being a "realist" is saying that its not gonna happen. I will be the old man with the really nice house a few cars in the garage nice lawn with a dog but will have no one to share it with and no one to leave it to when I die.

harper17 harper17
31-35, M
2 Responses Mar 5, 2010

I've seen a lot of girls fall for guys who wouldn't be considered typically good-looking. Sometimes attraction comes through interesting conversation or similar interests. Sometimes a girl can be charmed by kindness and attention. But most of the times, the key in my opinion is a certain amount of confidence and a positive attitude. It won't work with all girls but it's a good starting place to find THE girl you are looking for. After all, it's better to try your best shot and be turned down than not trying and missing meeting the girl of your dreams.

Dude, forget the workplace jerks. Don’t make it a self-fulfilling prophecy. <br />
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Nomomisery’s advice is good. <br />
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Looking for someone is like a part-time job. Now get to it!