So Lonley And Not Sure What To Do

I moved here to be with my present husband.  I left everything behind family, my grown kids etc.  Was it worth it?  I don't believe it was but at first I thought I could manage it with his love behind me.  I am lonley and seem to be blamed for everything that goes on in our lives.  Finances etc.  I was totally devasted when he told me that he is not sure if he loves me anymore and if he wants to be with me.  i want to be posiive and keep good faith but slowly losing any will to make it.  Not suicidal just lost some friends dear in my life who helped me with things, always had a hug waiting and thought the world of me and made me believe it.


cottonwoodlady cottonwoodlady
51-55, F
2 Responses Mar 14, 2010

I have been in this situation. I moved far away with my ex to be with him while he went to college. I quit my job, left my friends and my family...and while he was at school all day making new friends, I was sitting at home trying to find a job. I was so sad and lonely, and looked forward to him getting home since he was really the only person I had contact with in a brand new town. Then a month later he told me he didn't think it was going to work out between us (after 3 years of living together). So I packed up my stuff and moved back home...I can feel your pain. Hopefully your situation works out better for you!

That sounds like it sucks. I've never actually been in this situation, but it sounds to me that if you question whether or not it was worth it, and the answer is "Well, I'm lonely and I'm unhappy", then it might not be worth it.<br />
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Best wishes to you- hope it gets better. :)