Growing up I always had a lot of friends and now I do not have anyone to call whenever I want to go out for a random dinner. My best friend from kinder-garden had a baby 3 years ago and I haven't seen her since. The friends I did make getting out of high school I out grew and I guess that is a good thing in a way and I am getting closer to my goals but Its not how i thought it would be. I am looking of a best friend that wants to succeed just as much as I do. I am not a judgmental person at all I love all people but someone with the same focus would make life so much easier and would bring joy to my heart. I also come from a broken family so there is not much love going around in between my family. I just feel like I need someone to share things with go out for tea, go shopping and share our plans for the future as we become successful together. I do understand friends require time but at the same time so do our dreams. I am a very talkative person which means I speak to everyone that I come across paths with and I am yet to find someone to be my best friend.
Jennivee Jennivee
22-25, F
3 Responses Dec 6, 2015

Heyy I'm literally in the same boat at you, my best friends for 10 yrs just got married and has a lil baby so I never see anymore, I just want that friendship where we can just chill, and have a good time, I'm currently at uni so also looking for someone who understands having to strive and work hard for their career.

Same here what uni do you go to and what's your major ? I guess people grow apart and we can not really do much about it when that happens

Can i be?


I understand. I have a friend right now I bought her a computer for christmas since her family was poor and I got a bonus at work. I know you can't pay a friendship but ever since then we've been good friends. this reminded me of that. how one good deed really changes things. I think real friendships come about from experiances and similarities. Seeing someone in dance class every day and having a blast is a good start of a friendship, etc. hell I don't even know fully myself to be honest. I've always been a loner, so that is probably my issue.