Never Met Mine

I've never met anyone that came close to being a soulmate for me.  What is a soulmate anyway?  All the definitions I have read never or will never apply to me.  Do you meet your soulmate once in your lifetime?  What if you never meet them - are they still considered your soulmate?  This subject has confused me for so many years.

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2 Responses Mar 6, 2010

I haven't met mine either, or anyone close to it. For me it sounds like some mythical creature, like the Yeti or the Loch Ness monster, so I guess I don't believe in it per se, but it sure does sound romantic. I would love to meet it if there were one.<br />
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But realistically, looking at the lives of those around me - my mum, my relatives and some of my older friends - it seems like one tough creature to find. Instead I chose to think that relationships are built, through a careful concoction of time and chances and trial and errors. So many times we are looking for 'the one' that we miss out on the doors of opportunities around us.<br />
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Haha, I guess I'm a little more pessimistic about this 'soulmate' thing because of my environment, so I'm sorry if this isn't really encouraging...

Everyone as a soulmate, and I would like to believe that everyone will meet them too.<br />
Though I am not sure if you can define what a soulmate is though. For different ppl they will something else.<br />
You will find a soulmate man, probably when you least expect it. They may not be what you want, but they will be what you ned