The Los the Found and Those Seeking

you are right it just seems so wrong ive just never understood peopel need to be something there not

we don't all have the same flaws and if we do have some the same they are at different levels we're all individuals i don't like it when other people pretend to be something they're not but you have to respect their right to do so and your right to decide how much distance to keep i hope we become less judgemental but until then let people do what they need to

its not so much being apart of somone elses world. we all belong to the same world we all have the same flaws in a sense so i dont understand why we judge people so much. i mean i cant say that i havent done my fair share of judging but why in the world do we do it right do we have. its what causes others to lie and pretend to be something there not

its not so much being apart of somone elses world. we all belong to the same world we all have the same flaws in a sense so i dont understand why we judge people so much. i mean i cant say that i havent done my fair share of judging but why in the world do we do it right do we have. its what causes others to lie and pretend to be something there not

yes, it's important to feel safe and we have to assume that if someone is keeping "a secret" it's because he/she doesn't feel safe we all have the right to share with whom and when we want we don't have to regurgitate ourselves all over everyone we meet BUT i can understand feeling disillusioned if someone goes out of his/her way to represent himself as something he's not..... it seems easier to surround yourself as much as possible with people who will understand you rather than people who are totally disconnected from your world...

thats one of the things i really like about this sight people can tell the truth they can either hide there identity or show it but there still telling the truth without risk of prosecution that is unrightfuly distributed

what is so important is ourselves; by protecting ourselves either by lies or silence we're shielding ourselves from what we perceive will be harm if we show all of our cards.....

why should truth be so hard to tell the lies are what should be hard. we hide so much of ourselfes behind lies its disgusting. what is so important that we have to hide.

the truth is nice to share with others but it takes a very close relationship with someone to be able to share personal truths that one is ashamed or unsure about... it's too bad we have so much in this culture that falls into the don't ask, don't tell category if someone hasn't shared with you then you should, instead of feeling slighted or left out, hope instead that he/she was able to share with someone close