Bestfriend Vs. Boyfriend

My now boyfriend and I have been friends for 4 years. My now bestfriend and I have been friends for about 2 years now.
They use to be somewhat friendly about 2 1/2 to 3 years back.
Well I am at a cross roads right now because she hates him.
If she ever gets a chance she will say anything to make him seem like a bad guy and make me seem like I am really stupid for dating him. But she doesn't know him. They were only friendly for about 6 months, maybe. And during that time he pulled some jerk-ish moves(But haven't we all?)
It really sucks because she can't and won't see the person he is and it feels like Im being split between two people I really care about. I have no idea what to do.
I don't want to lose either of them, but she's making it really difficult.
She's got her own relationship that is going extremely well, so why bash on mine?
I thought bestfriends were suppose to be supportive and tell you if things bothered them and why. Uhg.
I'm so confused!
ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
18-21, F
Dec 9, 2012