Only Important To Her When She's Single.

She cares more about her boyfriend.
He's now living with her.

She's 17.

He doesn't like me.
Because I like black people.
And because I like women.
But mostly because she and I used to fool around.

But I don't like him either.
He's a stupid redneck.
He's turning her into a stupid redneck too.

We're drifting apart.

I'm only important to her when she's single.

Merralada Merralada
18-21, F
8 Responses Jun 13, 2010

Seems like distance between you and your so-called "friend" is the answer. This sort of thing ended up happening to me.

I can agree to that. Ever since my best friend got a boyfriend this year she has been ignoring me. I really needed my best friend this year, and where was she the whole time? With him. It breaks my heart to think of the loss of someone who once meant so much to me

It sucks when that happens!

I can completely relate. My best friend when she was single she had all the time in the world and would always hang out with me. Boyfriend shows up. She forgets me. It sucks. She doesn't even blow me off for my birthday she completely forgot about it. Which is actually in the same month of her boyfriends and she used to tell me she would use his to remember mine. Then when I called her out on her crap she said I was possesive. Well me and her aren't friends anymore hope it goes better for you.

I can completely relate. My best friend when she was single she had all the time in the world and would always hang out with me. Boyfriend shows up. She forgets me. It sucks. She doesn't even blow me off for my birthday she completely forgot about it. Which is actually in the same month of her boyfriends and she used to tell me she would use his to remember mine. Then when I called her out on her crap she said I was possesive. Well me and her aren't friends anymore hope it goes better for you.

@Miayah Yeah. :/ She's my best friend.<br />
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@Equality Haha I'm actually a girl...Which is why her boyfriend has a problem with me. (I'm bisexual and he's a homophobe. Since she's been dating him she's started saying she's SUPERDUPER straight. Yeeeah, she was just telling me in April that she likes women.)<br />
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But yeah. :/ I've talked to her about it time and time again because she ALWAYS does this whenever she has a boyfriend and all she ever says is that I'm her best friend and it's just because it's a new relationship... But they've been together since my birthday in April. (Yeah, did I mention she blew me off on my own ******* birthday for him?)

That really sucks!

honestly, its sad to say...but when a girl and a guy are best friends theres always going to be conflicts when a relationship starts with either one of them. jealousy is going to arise no matter what...its kind of inevitable. if she really cared that much for you she would ignore him and still be friends with you because you were her best friend...its hard to get over...but life moves on u know?? your young...shes pretty young to even move in with a guy...but dont be a person she always falls back on ok? its going to hurt you..

Is this a best friend of yours?

Is this a best friend of yours?