I Don't Know What to Do!!!!!!!

I love my man, but he is not always there when i need him. Everytime i go home he tries to ignore me. Sometime i feel that he doesn't love me anymore. I live with him. I have 1 child with him. Sometimes i think that he is only staying with because of the baby. I love him so much. But what i hope is him to love me back like i do. When i ask him he says i do live you!

snelle snelle
18-21, F
1 Response May 2, 2007

I think men sometimes have a harder time showing their emotions the way that we do. Sometimes I think that men and women can get into a comfortable zone with their partners and get to feeling like they don't have to make any effort to keep things alive. This can lead to problems in a relationship when the other partner starts feeling neglected. So I would set a time for the two of you to have a heart to heart talk. Tell him about your concerns and feelings and ask him to try to open up more so that you may feel closer to him. This type of thing happens to a lot of people. I am a female and my ex used to tell me he felt like I ignored him sometimes and didn't give him the attention that he craved. I didn't mean to do it but I was and I didn't even realize what I was doing. Thats not the reason we are not together now by the way but I was just giving that as an example. I am sure he does love you but people get caught up into different mind sets.