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We Never Had Sex

i never had sex with my husband. he never touched me in bed. whenever i ask for it, he just push me away and keep telling me that he's too tired and exhausted. i know that he has ED problem due to his diabetes. but he refused to seek help from doctors. i dont want to sound sellfish here but sometimes i need a touch from my own husband in bed. i want him to do something about his disease because i really want to make love to him. he seems dont really care to fix our problem. it 's really hurt when everytime i wanna make love to him and he ask me to get it from other man
mendu mendu 31-35, F 15 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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Move-on. You only have this life in which you can experience fulfillment and pleasure. You can't change him, & he likely won't change.

oh my forgot the other issue, 1 this is why some peepz take a test drive before they buy because , the issue may be know what you are buying because you may be bi-ing. 2.sex is not the only thing in a relationship but he may be getting sex but not from you and sex that you could never provide. if your city has a gay bath house you can google that and then if he is ever m.i.a. roll by and check for his car. Some people get married because the church tells them to. they do not want to disappoint family friends and they them selves fill less of a person if they live a life that is against all they have been raised to be? i was involved with someone that was on there second marriage with grand kids and never knew untill his phone rang and he avoided the call and i asked him who it was and he said know one and i looked at his phone and it said wifey. it is what it is. peace.

sorry i guess when the equiptment is not working like it should a guy feels less of a man and that is a major thing for a guy. if his diabetes is due to weight get a gym membership and both of you and him can work out and that may reduce the effects of that. if it is not that ask him if he will do the genneric viagra or a **** ring " jelly cockring" if the equipment is not working it is a major blow to a guys ego so be very gradual. rub his back, oh yeah a guys ears and the center of his back is a good ezone. do not expect results instantly. he is feeling like he is not holding up his end and he can't share that with anyone. be gentle, be slow, show him you love him no matter how well he does between the sheets. and he will want to seek help if all that he can do with out a doctor has been done. peace that is just my take..

U married ur Hubsand for love devotion and much more. It seems to me all u want is sex.did u ever think he is tried, I have diabetes and that doesn't stop u from performing. If u have step out of ur marriage my this is his way of protecting him self. Take a hard look at ur self and just maybe u find out that the reaction u getting is what u put out. Love ur Hubsand instead of thinking about ur pie.

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It is not unusual for a woman in your situation to have a lover. In fact it is very common and often the husband approves and will even help with the arrangements. It is usually called "hotwifing". If your marriage is pretty good otherwise you might consider mentioning it to your husband. It would be much better than having an affair. There are many sites on the internet dedicated to this lifestyle and most of the women seem to very much enjoy it and usually the husbands do too. If I had a physical problem that prevented me from having any type of sex. I would encourage my wife to become a "hotwife".

I think you have already given it a very serious thought and it is time to act,it looks as if he do not want to do any thing about his problem,if you are a young woman ,then you should file for a devorce ,you should not be forced to live your life like this ,I wish you the best ,bye.

Honestly, I think you should get a divorce...<br />
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If he doesn't want to handle the problem then find someone else...<br />
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Sounds harsh, but years wasted in this way will really take its toll on you and in later years you'll feel bitter about it...

Look up Pheromones on the internet. <br />
Look up the companies that sell pheromones. <br />
Read their web sites.<br />
Pick one company and buy the product. <br />
Try it out.<br />
You may have to try a few companies or products to find the one that works.

If your husband has never had sex with you - your marriage has never been consumated and I do believe that is grounds for divorce. Why not explore this avenue for yourself.

I understand how you feel. I find it extremely difficult to sleep in the same bed as my wife yet not be able to touch her. She never touches me. The rejection is very hard to take.

may you should get from another man...<br />
reading what you said seems like he does not treat you right at all. so... maybe you should start loving youself first and then decide this relationship

HEY JENN I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND WHY WIFE HAS NOT NEEDED TO SHOW AAFFECTION TOME FOUR AND A HALF YEARS THAT IS ODD BECAUSE I AM THE ONE THAT HAS MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS. IT HAS BEEN A LOVELESS LIFE AND EVEN THOUGH I AM THE OPPOSITE GENDER THEN YOU I RELATE.PEOPLE SEEM TO CARRY HATE ALONG WITH THEM AND BRING IT OUT ANY TIME LOVE COMES TO THEM. I MYSELF AM TIRED OF THAT!!! IF THEY DO NOT WANT MY WORTHY AFFECTION FRIG THEM I AM TIRED OF WASTING ALL MY TIME. I GUESS I VENTED THERE A LITTLE BUT I NEED LOVE TO GO ON. WITHOUT IT I JUST FEEL LIKE THE INVISIBLE MAN.WELL I HOPE YOU DECIDE EVEN IF IT SEEMS WRONG NOW BUT OH SO RIGHT LATER.

how long have you been married and not had sex? Do you get any love at all? Hugs, kisses, cuddling? Or is this man just a cold fish? Did you know about his problem before you got married?<br />
I am very sympathetic and feel for you. I'm in same situation, but not married. been with my gf for 8 months and she's afraid of sex because of what her ex-husband did to her.