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it gets lonely sometimes, really, lonely, he is there all the time but there is no intimacy unless i initiate it and if i do, he rejects me and makes me feel worthless without words, when he eventually realize what he has done, he pretends nothing is wrong.
my husband does not fondle, touch, play unless he wants sex
I have no reason to believe he has an unfair, he's always at home, watching tv, sleeping, drinking or drunk
I wish he can spare some time and notice me

What do you do, have you find a remedy/solution?, please share
NakedM NakedM
36-40, F
2 Responses Jul 10, 2010

As people seldom change and he is perfectly happy with the way things are, the best you can do for yourself is to realize that this lies on his shoulders and not on yours. Blaming yourself will only add to your pain. Try to do special things that make you feel better for yourself. Your self esteem is being damaged with every rejection. Try to spend time with friends and people that give you respect. That value you. Hope this helps. D.

It gets lonely sometimes, really, lonely, he is there all the time but there is no intimacy unless i initiate it and if i do, he rejects me and makes me feel worthless without words, when he eventually realize what he has done, he pretends nothing is wrong.<br />
my husband does not fondle, touch, play unless he wants sex<br />
I have no reason to believe he has an unfair, he's always at home, watching tv, sleeping, drinking or drunk<br />
I wish he can spare some time and notice me<br />
<br />
What do you do, have you find a remedy/solution?, please share