Lonely But Not Sure What To Do

My wife started shutting down about 3 years ago. We married 6 years ago (2nd time for both) all was good for a while. It is possibly 6 months since sex happened and it was possibly 2 or 3 months before that when it happened. I don't know what to think, maybe there is another person in her life. I have always been loyal to her, generous, fun loving as well as carrying more than my share of the work load at home.
I have become very lonely too.

willme willme
51-55
2 Responses Jul 24, 2010

I don't think that gaining weight or not gaining weight has anything to do with it. I've always been thin, tall and in shape my husband is the exact opposite and still I'm the one that's always alone. we're like two islands in the same ocean...I think about moving on all the time and maybe one day I'll just pick up and go but like most people that endup staying I still have one more kid to worry about!

I am in the same boat but I am a woman. He doesn't because I am not 20 something and not size 5 small anymore. We both have gain weight over our 17 years marriage. We talk about it but nothing happens. If your wife doesn't even want to talk about it than it is time to move on.