Married Almost a Year

I'm 22 andI've been married for almost a year and my husband still acts like he's single. We live in a city that about 300 miles from all my friends and family. He still goes out and hangs out with his friends until the wee hours of the morning. We have so many fights about me feeling alone that I've lost count it almost like he doesn't care. I don't believe in divorce but I need some kind of answer I don't think I can spend the rest of my life like this. I don't want to cheat but I really want someone to look at me and tell me i,m beautiful or someone to take me to the movies or even to send me a text and say I was on their mind. Am I wrong for this?
newlywed newlywed
22-25, F
3 Responses Mar 21, 2008

Not sure what to say. I have been to a marriage counseling it did not help. My wife spends all her time with her mom. I have left but it hurt my 16yr old to much so I came back. I am still lonely. Now I am looking for a friend to hang out with. If you would like to chat hit me up. Good luck.

I feel your pain sweetie. I would strongly suggest going to a marriage counselor together. If he refuses to go, then you need to start going by yourself. Pretty soon, they'll come with you out of curiousity. <br />
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If he refuses marriage counseling period, then I guess you know your answer. <br />
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Best of luck!!! :)

no your not wrong for expecting those sort of things!<br />
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but that should happen before youre married to as well as when you are... unless it used to and has now stopped!<br />
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getting married dosn't mean it will get better! people don't change for the better because of marriage!