Feel Like A Single Mom Even Though Im Married

I am a stay at home mom/step mom of 8. Well really we have only 6 that live with us all the time and 2 that are with us on the weekends. I had four when I met my husband and he had 3 and we kinda "adopted" one. My husband works construction and is gone all week long. Our kids are 14, 13, 10, two 9, 8, 5, and baby is 2. Its crazy and fun with all the kids, but I really get lonely for adault conversation.
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3 Responses May 9, 2012

You have to be careful on here though, there are some twisted minds out there. Adult conversation to you means other adults to converse with. To those with twisted minds it means they want to know kinky stuff, make lewd remarks, ask inappropriate questions etc. I have added you as a friend, send me a message any time. I will be glad to share. I am a little older than you but have many experiences that have shaped my life.

I am also new to the site. I totally understand what you mean. I don't really see how posting random facts or sources of frustration will create a bunch of friendships for me. I am probably a little older and am not of the generation that feels free to post personal information for all to see. But, I have been in your shoes as far as the stay at home mom with my husband gone all of the time. I went back to work in about 2004 when my husband's company went under. I think it was the best thing for me, I was so happy to be with adults again. That may not be an option for you right now because you have a lot of young children, but maybe in the future. I wish I could tell you how to find a few people in a situation similar to yours that could be a support for you. I am still trying to find that myself.

depends on what you are looking for in adult conversation :P<br />
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jokes aside...you just to make friends with the right set of people...who will give you the conversation you are looking for...:)

thats why you have come to the right place...yes, you will find all kinds of people on here but at the same time, you will find people who will be understanding, patient and mature with you..
search for a group that interests you...find people with similar background...am sure you will find many people wanting to lend you an ear and at the same time engage in a meaningful conversation...:)