I Have A Husband But I Still Feel Lonely

hi, ive been married for 8 months now, and i have to tell you i dont like it.. my husband is rude moody cold and he doesnt show me love the way i want.. he takes love making as something he has to do so i wont be mad at him but its not romantic and passionate. sometimes he goes days without even touching me i always have to initiate and thn i feel like he just does it because he doesnt want me mad at him.. i think im starting to get depressed if things dont change im going to leave him i am not going to take it much longer, i know im a good looking woman and i take care of myself workout smell great work hard in the house i take care of him like a king and i dont get nothing in return..
pattycakesss pattycakesss
3 Responses Jun 6, 2012

I am sorry you have to go through the pain. It sometimes is too easy to give advise to people we are not face to face with. But that being said you are just starting out in this relationship and it will only get harder to leave. I have gone without for more than eleven years and I now have too much invested emotionally and otherwise to put and end to our marriage.

i feel you pattycakes, im going thru the same thing with mine..

This is the first time that I'm here, but reading your post I totally picture myself in the same situation. My husband is exactly the same. We've been married for almost 7 years and after the first year he changed completely. It's all about him, isn't "we" or "ours" in my marriage and I feel so worthless.