This Is My Cry For Help

WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I STRATED DATEING IT WAS MAGICAL
BUT AFTER 14 YRS AND 4 BOYS LATER IT ALL ABOUT HOUSE WORK RUNNING THE KIDS HERE AND THERE AND BEING HIS SEX TOY I FEEL UNWANTED UNLOVED IT MAKES ME WONDER WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME . I AM STILL 100LBS I DO MY MAKE-UP EVERY DAY AND MY HAIR HE WON'T SHOW ME ANY AFFECTION WHAT DO I DO ?
mysticredrose23 mysticredrose23
31-35, F
3 Responses Sep 6, 2012

Only thing I can say is panty his ***....yes you heard me right.....since your his sex toy as you say.....you do it right and you'll see just how you can get him to be A lot more attentive to you..... And the easiest way to tell if he is game is did he ever get let's say excited while you were shopping in the woman's dept panty bra section? If so you got a good chance he's ready for a little change

If u find out let me know, I think we r taken for granted a lot. I am in the same boat my only connection with my husband is our children which we also have 4. I swear he comes home for them not me anymore. It makes u feel unwanted and not validated, my self esteem has crashed and I find I don't have a social life myself as I'm the one running the kids everywhere. I wish someone could make them see we also have needs and deserve to be loved and nurtured

Have you tried to discuss this with him? Someitmes spouses sadly take thier spouses for granted the only advice I can give is let him know how you feel. Good Luck