Estranged Marriage

My husband and I are separated and don't talk. I am taking care of our 3 year old and I don't want to contact him for help with the baby because I don't agree with how he cares for children. My life has slowed down a lot and I don't have anyone to talk to about things. All I have is people that judge me. I would really love people to talk to about any and everything so I can start living again.
alive77 alive77
3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

Your not alone! I too am separated from my husband, taking care of our 3 kids! Does your husband contact you asking about the baby?

I am feeling the same. My husband refused to talk because he is not in the mood. Its really hard on us because he is away for 3 weeks. We are on IVF but I decide not to continue because I cant bear it if we fail. But right now it just prove we are not meant to be together. I never talk to anybody about our situation because ppl think we are so happy.

I know what you mean about the pressure and weight of what people think. If you really believe that your marriage is over, you may still have the perfect guy waiting for you somewhere out there and you may love him even more than your husband now. Sometimes people get married even though God didn't mean for them to be together. I am thinking that is what happened with me and my husband.

I know how you feel. When you put everything into a relationship, and that ends, your left alone. Its going to take some effort for you to get out and make some friends, good ones that won't judge you.