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Somewhere Along The Way, I Ceased Being Myself And Became....

....her husband and the kids father. To be totally honest, I am divorced now, but the decree is set aside, as she is not happy with the settlement. So, I am stuck in limbo. anyway....

I used to be me. An individual. Unique. It's great to be part of a family and part of a marriage, but if you lose your individuality totally, you are gone I guess. My "stuff" became fodder for garage sales, junk day, and the kids mayhem. My interests were deemed "non-essential" as they did not fit the collectives wants and needs. The things that made me who I was, became a source of ridicule and debate.

I love my daughters and I bear no animosity towards my ex-wife. It isn't her fault that she just doesn't give a damn about the things that are important to me. I have the vague perception that I will have my moment in the Sun again. But, it may be a long while.....
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OMG, I feel your pain and sadness but keep in mind that "that too shall pass." There will be better days ahead for you, I'm sure. Chin up! :)

totally understand where your coming from, it would be nice to be linzi instead of just mum once in a while!! ((((((((hugs))))))))) xxx

" I have the vague perception that I will have my moment in the Sun again. But, it may be a long while....."
Only if you go and make it happen.