I am married but lonely.  My husband rarely talks to me or wants to do anything with me and this saddens me greatly.  He would rather work or watch tv instead of doing much with me.  He loves hanging out with the kids which I am grateful of that he is a good dad.  I do not want to be the one to rip apart the family as my kids are happy and I choose to stay in my lonely marriage for the sake of my kids.  Just wish I had some friends to talk with sure would be nice, someone who can relate and understand

tatteredwings tatteredwings
4 Responses Jan 31, 2009

You are not alone, my husband rather play games on his Iphone or play video games with his friends every friday night from 6:30pm to 2:00am. I'm really sick of it but he tells me thats his time with the boys. He does'nt spend alot of time with me unless it's about sex, then he shows me attention but I just go with the flow. I've been married for 5years but with him for 10 years. I fell we are growing apart my feelings has began to change because I feel in my heart he's communciating with another woman.

Thank you incijali I will do that

It comes from having been hurt so bad that I feel tattered inside and out. Will do

Thank you and I will