Frustrated and Lonely In Mississauga

hello all...new to site...nice to be able to talk to others in same position....marriaged too long....its always been a struggle to get my wife into intimacy....very difficult just to get a hug or kiss....and now it is only once or twice a year...at her suggestion...i stopped asking a long time ago....to hard on the ego when your not wanted....emotionally draining dealing with the situation....as i get older i find i need more intimacy...i love to give and receiving which i never get....is it better to look for someone who is in the same position where we can provide for each others needs and yet not disrupt our relationships with out spouses....or just except and get on with life....

pussum699 pussum699
56-60, M
1 Response Mar 10, 2009

Im a woman in the same position, my husband of 22 years has no feelings in bed for me either. I try to not let it bother me but it does, i feel so alone and neglected.