Lonely and BlueBeen with the man for 25 years. Have lived through several "affairs", drug use, alcohol, not to mention the lies. The past 7 years, (after marriage counseling), had been awesome. But alas, He says he no longer loves me like he thinks he should. I believe him. He is cool and distant. But still very caring, if you can believe that. He is trying to be as amicable as possible, but I am shocked and dumbfounded. What a way to lose weight! Dropped 15 lbs in 2 1/2 weeks. He doesn't want to do marriage counseling. I have tried almost everything, but to no avail. My heart is so broken. We cry about it, but he just can't help it. I can't make him love me. I feel so empty. Is there anyone out there who is going through this? I don't see any hope for us.
myjellybean 46-50, F 18 Responses 1 Sep 15, 2007