In Love and Lonely
My wife is my best friend, smart, funny, driven. She is sto stressed by work to the point of always being sick, sore, or stressed out. We rarely spend time together and even though we have only been married over a year only make love every month or two. I miss her and want to be there for her but I miss being physically intimate with her. I am not a jerk or sex fiend, I am a good person, work hard, cook, help out with the house, and do whatever I can to help but to no avail. The only time we are intimate is if we are isloated from work on vacation or long weekends. Am I being selfish wanting this intimacy? I feel alone all of the time, but do not want to add the extra stress of telling her this again and again. I dont know what to do. If anyone has advice please let me know.