I Am Lonely

I have been with my husband for 12 years married 9, I am lonely we never do anythign together not even social events. I am always the one married but sitting alone. I have tried to talk tohim about htis but he doesnt care how I feel. Is it time to split up? I feel like I am a "married" single parent.

GINAWALDMANN GINAWALDMANN
36-40
1 Response Feb 23, 2010

hi! i am sorry to see your situation ...but before giving any opinion i would like to know more details about the story...u have made claims in the story but i am not able to find the logic's behind the same. i firmly believe that if things are seen rationally it helps to solve the problem after all it is all about the relations between u and ur hubby...<br />
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I have some questions? if ur r serious please answer so that i can do some analysis!<br />
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1. SInce ur married for the past 12 years it is surprising that u have not discussed the issue seriously.Why? Whats is the problem in it after all he is ur hubby not a stranger! right<br />
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2. Why are u thinking of a split without even discussing the issue and finding the root cause ?<br />
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3. Is he in affair with some one else? if this the case u should talk assertively and not submissively about the same and then come to some decision.<br />
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4 Do u have kids?<br />
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i think u wont mind sharing ur experience if any