26years Old Female,married For 5years And Have A 3yrs Old Daughter. Leading A Sexless,loveless & Stressful Married Life

Hi i am 26 years old female,got married 5years back it was a love marriage. I have a 3years old daughter too. From last 4years m living a sexless,loveless & a very stressful life, which i never dreamt of ever. My husband have some medical problem (relating to sex) due to which we dont have any physical relations from last 4 years. Moreover, we daily have fights on petty matters which increase into a big fight. Many times i think of taking divorce but when i think abt my daughter's future cant even do that.M very much confused what to do? please can some1 help me?
Emptiness26 Emptiness26
31-35, F
1 Response May 8, 2012

Dear Friend, Please don't be so upset. I am in the same position as yours and I can understand what this can do to you. I have been called a sex maniac and also that I should see a Doctor for my sex addiction. (LOL!) Even if I ********** that is held against me. I think you should get other people in the family for support. Look at the damage that is happening to the psyche of the little child when both of you are fighting. So you can look at separation as an option. Women have the advantage in these cases in India. Please hold you head up high and don't let it break you down mentally. Talk to someone in the family and look for options and then take a step. I am sure something will work out. At least you have people who are willing to listen to you.