I Am Married But Often Date Other Men
My husband and I lived on the same block growing up. Though he's 8+ yrs. older I had a crush on him. He was home from college when he really noticed me for the first time. I was sexually active with 2 of his friends, and we ended up hooking up .Bottom line, he knew I was a **** when he proposed to me 6 years later. I was head over heels in love with him. We had a son together but he insisted that had nothing to do with it, he loved me. I cried and cried over my dilema. We didn't have a lot of mutual friends but I had a reputation that his friends knew about. I'd been in and out of counciling since I was 15. He didn't care. I said no to him because I knew I could never be a "faithfull wife". His response, "I don't expect you to".
We were married 2 months when we started swinging. 2 years later we had a beautiful daughter. My first black man was his college frat. brother and there was no denial about our mutual enjoyment. It wasn't more than a week after that we invited one of our swing buddies over for a 3some. When he arrived my husband told him that one of the kids was sick and he thought it best to stay home. He said he didn't feel comfortable leaving them with a baby sitter, and asked if it would be a problem if just took me out. This was totally unexpected. When he asked me if I minded?, I just shook my head, "No, if you're sure?". He assured me he was and said, "Enjoy, see ya when you home".
It was like high school all over again. I sat next to him in the car, my hand on his thigh. I liked it. When I got home I told my husband every detail. He liked it too. Not long after he asked me if I wanted to "maybe date some black guys". I tried to be coy and said, "Maybe, I wouldn't mind".
I guess the point is, we communicate. We love eachother to death and everyone else is just sex. I like dating. I love being married.
We were married 2 months when we started swinging. 2 years later we had a beautiful daughter. My first black man was his college frat. brother and there was no denial about our mutual enjoyment. It wasn't more than a week after that we invited one of our swing buddies over for a 3some. When he arrived my husband told him that one of the kids was sick and he thought it best to stay home. He said he didn't feel comfortable leaving them with a baby sitter, and asked if it would be a problem if just took me out. This was totally unexpected. When he asked me if I minded?, I just shook my head, "No, if you're sure?". He assured me he was and said, "Enjoy, see ya when you home".
It was like high school all over again. I sat next to him in the car, my hand on his thigh. I liked it. When I got home I told my husband every detail. He liked it too. Not long after he asked me if I wanted to "maybe date some black guys". I tried to be coy and said, "Maybe, I wouldn't mind".
I guess the point is, we communicate. We love eachother to death and everyone else is just sex. I like dating. I love being married.
By:
Jennifer469
Age:
26-30
,
Female
