Any Advice?

I am married, but seperated for 16 months. It ended once my husband became very abusive. I wish I could get the courage to move on. I am attractive and have a great job. I am a kind person. I just don't know how to take that first step. Even though my ex had various affairs, sees other women now and treated me very badly, I still feel guilty because we are "married". Is it wrong to try to find a nice guy? How long is reasonable?
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2 Responses Jan 16, 2013

Dealing with the same issue, the Fog (feeling of guilt) has lifted but still feel paralyzed. She says she doesn't want to be with me anymore but doesn't want a divorce. Caught being unfaithful and she moved out, filed for separation. Been living like a Monk and it's lonely. She wants me to divorce her so her standing in the church won't reflect her indiscretion and be admonished.

No a man sould never put his hand on a woman you deserve better and would be better off alone then with some whi can be abusive any time he wont miss you till your gone