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Trapped

When we met he had 3 kids, I loved, accepted and nurtured them and we have had 3 together. His older 3 have made my life hell. His oldest boy has sodomized me, and hit me repeatedly along with getting his younger brother to join him in beating me once. His daughter has disrespected me and continues to have no respect for me, her father or her own child. Now our younger 3 are seeing all of this and I know its hurting them. I have tried leaving him, but he has threatened that if I ever take the younger 3 and leave he will track me down and kill me and make sure my body is never found. He has smacked me for not backing down to his son and doesn't seem to see anything wrong with the boys putting their hands on me or any other female. There are so many screwy things in this relationship, but I am just so afraid. I want out so bad that I don't know if i've ever wanted anything any more. I know that there is no way he could possibly respect me let alone love me.
HopeAwaits HopeAwaits 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2012

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You should try to get help through a women's shelter that will take you and your three children in and help hide you and relocate to start a new life. If you have birth certificates for your children and your other identification papers - it would be helpful. Don't live in fear. Through battered and abused women's shelters and strangers like myself who care about you and your own children surviving safely in a new life, you could relocate safely and never look back. Wishing you safe escape soon, good health, security and much happiness. And yes: there are other men out there, like myself, who would want to honor their Mom's memory, God, country, you and your children by wanting to be your supporting soulmate for life - going forward!

hope you can muster up the strength to help yourself
and your kids..you shouldnt be living in fear..
you and only you can make things better..
get out, get help.. dont look back..

YES TAKE YOUR 3 AND RUN LIKE HELL GET AWAY FROM THEM BEFORE ITS TO LATE. RUN GIRL AND DON'T LOOK BACK