One And Done!

I moved to the prettiest place on the coast, I rented an apartment and became friends with the man upstairs, He was busy with online dating and i was busy morning a loss of my Dad,  We started to spend time together and before long we married, I started to notice a change almost that week, Silly disagreements, him wanting to know where i was going, actually coming to my work. and then the anger came, he would start yelling at people in public places, Starting arguements about small things, and then the spending Oh god! I watched horror seeing what i really had gooten my self into.

  And then after only three months he call a suicide hotline goes to get help and comes back saying" they want to put me in the hospital, I am not going"  well that was in July, I struggle with this mess as each day things get worse, I struggle wondering what to do...

So today i came here.

justbella justbella
46-50, F
2 Responses Feb 11, 2010

Make him see a doctor. Without treatment you are not trying to reason with and live, with your husband, you are living with the results of an illness. Have people to support you. Bipolar is a nasty illness that breeds rage and hatred at times. <br />
Seek legal advice. Sometimes its what you need in order to do what is needed for the person you love and is sick. His judgement may be impaired significantly.

Given the obvious serious of his condition you might want to think about whether or not you are in fact validly married. You need to get support around you from mental health experts and start finding out what you can do to preserve your own sanity. I am so sorry you are suffering this. My prayers are with you.