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I Am Married to a Bipolar Man

Trying to Hold On

By: karenina
Written on November 16th, 2007
By: karenina
Age: 41-45 , Female
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    GloriaDLiverer

    karenia,



    I wish you all the best. I know first hand that your situation is excruiating. I posted to things on here that I hope will help. One is simple strategies most important of which is to take CARE of yourself.

    The second was a book "Loving someone with Bipolar" which so far I find very helpful. i too love my husband, i just hate the violence. I pray we will find a way to address it and end it.

    Meanwhile you and I both have small children. Each has a 30% chance of getting bipolar. So, personally I want to learn all I can about strategies, support, etc. I have found a dbsalliance.org (depression bipolar support alliance) in my area. Hope you can too.



    All the best!

    Dec 1, 2009
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    eunet033

    I have been married with a kind of bipolar by 4 years now, and today I knew that he is looking for someone to hurt, because he is resentful and he thinks that couple has to pay his bad feelings today.

    He is taking olanzapina or zyprexa by ASTRA Zeneca, but he never goes to the doctor. What should I do, if sometimes I feel that I love him so much, and at the same time I hate him, because I am so unhappy with those attitudes?

    Jun 7, 2009
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    dab144

    get out now. I have been married for 20 years to a clinically diagnosed unmedicated bi polar just to keep a family together. not worth it.

    Apr 5, 2009
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