I Am Married to a Much Older Man
me 48, him 72, he is a fun loving outgoing person, younger looking for his age,healthy and looks well after himself, he still believes that he is 40 and can do anything that he did at the age of 19 and he does! never seen such an enegetic 72 year old,
Sex is no problem at all, he seems to want it more than i do.
problem is he still looks at younger woman, and comments about their boobs, drives me nuts.
he does not like it when i refer to his ex wife as your ex wife, call her by her name or
say that she is my first wife. In conversation with other people when something comes up about his past with his ex, he tells them that "my wife and i" in 1963, and a few minutes before that he introduced me as his wife. Does not compute! Ok, so i am just being petty.....
recently his ex ended up in hospital, i reminded him to send flowers, make a call etc. On the day
of him visiting her in hosp, i also reminded him that he should go, he then said in a very irate voice "is this something i can do by myself or do you have to go with? My first xmas with his
family i was forced to go and spend three days with his children and his ex with her brothers and sisters phew,was uncomfortable at first but made it through, three days , met her a couple of times again at the gran childrens parties etc, we get along fine or so i thought, was told that
she does not want to see people she doesnt knowwhile she is in hospital,so my husband get to
spend private time with her while i wait outside for him in the car.
I am supposed tospend xmas with them again, me against them, what do i do? i dont feel welcome
Sex is no problem at all, he seems to want it more than i do.
problem is he still looks at younger woman, and comments about their boobs, drives me nuts.
he does not like it when i refer to his ex wife as your ex wife, call her by her name or
say that she is my first wife. In conversation with other people when something comes up about his past with his ex, he tells them that "my wife and i" in 1963, and a few minutes before that he introduced me as his wife. Does not compute! Ok, so i am just being petty.....
recently his ex ended up in hospital, i reminded him to send flowers, make a call etc. On the day
of him visiting her in hosp, i also reminded him that he should go, he then said in a very irate voice "is this something i can do by myself or do you have to go with? My first xmas with his
family i was forced to go and spend three days with his children and his ex with her brothers and sisters phew,was uncomfortable at first but made it through, three days , met her a couple of times again at the gran childrens parties etc, we get along fine or so i thought, was told that
she does not want to see people she doesnt knowwhile she is in hospital,so my husband get to
spend private time with her while i wait outside for him in the car.
I am supposed tospend xmas with them again, me against them, what do i do? i dont feel welcome
By:
itsamess
Age:
46-50
,
Female
