I Think I'm Attracted To An Older ManI am 36 yrs & an I lost my partner & fiancé of 14 yrs almost a year ago to a tragic accident. My fiancé was my age & I have never man that is older than me. But the past month or so I found myself attracted to a much older man- he is 21 yrs my senior. I work as a nurse in a clinic & this is where I met "James". He is so nice & always has something pleasant to say... We exchange "light" convo & he seems like he's interested in me but I think he feels that I will reject him. I'm starting over in my life & I want the companionship of a man who is settled & not into being the focus of all women's attention. I want to feel secure. I have a friend who is dating an older guy & she said its the best experience she has ever had with a man. And since she's been dating him, the drama & BS in her life is at an all time low. She is at peace & happy in her relationship & she contributes that to being in an relationship with an older man. Not to say that if I chose to date an older man, I'll expect to same but I'm open to new experiences- after losing someone I loved past the moon, I don't want to start over with someone & feeling like I'm going backwards. Let's face it, the men that I have encountered since my fiancé's death have been a disaster!!! They have been such a turn-off with their games, lies, & drama. I don't have time for their foolishness- I need seriousness in my life. I just want to know what would be the best way to let "James" know that I am interested?
Goldie76 36-40, F 4 Responses 0 Jan 2, 2013