After beng groomed to spend my life being tortured by a PA husband. I realize they are the world's greatest salesmen. They love to romance, dazzle, amaze, and "please".. Oh but wait into they get you trapped, dependent, vulnerable in their web of smoke & mirrors. That is when the true animal comes out to play. You soon discover everything negative is YOUR fault. You're the villain. They shouldn't call it PA. It is more like split personality disorder. These people do not know if they love or hate you. Do they need you or not. In reality a PA need a whipping post. Normally it is their spouse. Oh to the world they are the BEST. Behind those sparkly eyes and kind gestures is a selfish, cruel bruiting beast. That LOVE alone CAN NOT tame.