FrustratedI have been married to my husband for almost two years, we have a beautiful daughter together. At first I was so impressed with him always being "fine" with everything. Now I am starting to feel more alone in the relationship. He has never answered any of my direct questions or requests with a relavent response. Instead I feel like I get "sandbagged" with what seems to me like irrelevent words. When challenged, he changes his answers consistently until I give up. I am looking for more ways to effecttively communicate with him. The funny part is, I think he truely beleves what he is saying to be true, I find it dishonest, and mean.
I receive the same treatment from my mil, who says nice things but demonstrates complete aggression towards me. When I have explained this to him he states things like "she is just trying to be nice", when to me it is so clearly the opposite.
It is like bizarro world, what gives?
amyjoh 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 May 23, 2013