I Am Married to a P*rn Addict

My husband is totally addicted to it, can't stop looking it up online, and has even gone so far as to proposition other women who live locally for sex. I'm at the point of ready to leave him with our 2 girls if it doesn't stop. I've had enough. There is monitoring software on our PCs and he works his way around it. I wish I knew what to do. Right now, I'm just laying low and saving up money to get away from him. I can't take it anymore!
aka746 aka746
26-30, F
3 Responses Feb 21, 2007

It's more than just **** if he is hitting on other women.<br />
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Try to not be blinded by ****... **** is only a symptom... **** is the ex<x>pression of the erotic side of humanity... nothing wrong in that... but not doing you duty for your married partner is not right.

symptom of what

So sorry to hear of your plight. He really has crossed the line, soliciting women means he has or will have sexxx with another women. If that woman is a hooker than you are at risk of sexually transmitted diseases so please DO NOT HAVE SEX with the man. No matter what he says TRUST is obviously going to be a real issue in dealing with him should you decide to stay. A story that will visually impress upon you the importance of this situation. Grandmother comes to my office to put her 8 year old granddaughter on her retirement insurance policy. I express sorrow for her situation... what happened? The son-in-law had sexxx with another and brought home AIDS, gave it to wife... both dead within 5 years. YOU HAVE A RIGHT to be alive for your two daughters. Don't let this "man" risk your life with the russian roulette that he's playing. Your like could depend on it. It amazes me how flippant some women are about "cheating"... like oh, he's learned his lesson, he'll never do it again. YOU KNOW HE WILL... deep down you know what you need to do. LISTEN TO YOURSELF. Seek family help. Remember the riskiest time is right after you leave. Men who don't feel in CONTROL can be dangerous. Protect yourself with others around at all encounters. It's really a different kind of abuse... but abuse none the less. good luck. please don't down play the information that YOU DO HAVE. Many never know their dude has propsistioned another... your lucky... you KNOW. Don't ignore it or allow him to down play it's relavance. Trust your deep down voice. <br />
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sorry.... Huggs.... go get out... be happy. Call your parents, friends or help.<br />
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Some degree of p*rn interest is pretty typical of most men regardless of his relationship status. However he has crossed the line whe he started trying to line up a date for himself. I would suggest you stop monitoring his computer usage. You are only making yourself angrier. You don't need to keep reviewing it to know that it is going on. Use your energy to make a well planned and less painful exit from your marriage.