In The Chaos I've Never Felt So At Peace.My husband and I were friends first, but when we started dating we married soon after. When you know, you know! Over the years we've had our struggles, but at the end of the day we always came back together. After 8 years, two beautiful girls and two deployments, I have never been happier. We have grown together in so many ways and I've learned more from him than I could ever explain. Myself and the girls are currently staying with family, as we make it through yet another deployment and have honestly never felt stronger and closer as a couple. We have had the amazing opportunity to step back and really evaluate everything. His advice is always honest even if I don't want to hear it. All decisions and obstacles we approach and conquer as a solid unit. There are no secrets and there isn't anything we cant tell each other, somethings are painful to hear at times, but we are always better for it.
He knows me better than anyone ever has and reminds me daily of his love and friendship. Every so often we go a few days without communication and I feel completely unbalanced. My world just doesn't make sense without him in it, He gives me strength everyday and provides me with a love I never thought existed. We;ve always agreed, we work much better as a team and function more efficiently knowing the other is there.
I was always terrified growing up, I would live this life without anyone truly knowing me down to the core. Not only was a lucky enough to find a person who knows me better than I know myself, but he makes me better for knowing him. And I was able to legally bind myself to that person for the rest of my life.
All I can hope is that the people I care about most are able to experience this at least once in their life.
He is my life, my love, my best friend and is a gift from God that we found each other.
Aingeal616 26-30, F 2 Sep 22, 2011