I'm Still In The Same Place I Alway's Was.I have depression and my wife is going through her change in life period and it is not alway's the best mix but can get interesting at time's. Every now and then my wife get's this far off look on her face and is quite and that is a hint that somthing is comming. The latest came as we were driving into town to do some shopping. She turned around and looked at me and said WE have changed and I just went along and ask her what she meant. She said that we use to be closer then what we were now and I again ask her to explaine. She said that we use to hold hand's every place we went and that we alway's sat next to each other on the couch when we watched a movie and that it was now me on one end of the couch and her on the other. She said that I did'nt even sit next to her when we were going anyplace anymore.
Now let me explaine a few thing's to you. I have alway's sat at the right end of the couch as I am right handed and set what ever I am drinking or munching on beside me on the end table on my right. I drive a pickup truck that has a bench seat in it so I am setting behind the wheel which is the best place to be if you intend to drive, right ? So when she is done with all the WE stuff I just turned around and made one statement, I have never moved from my spot since we got married but look at where you are at. And then I ask her that if I did'nt move from where I alway's was then how is it that WE changed. Well she just turned around and never did answer my question. But it's alway's the guy's fault right ? Go Figure.
Robert1256 51-55, M 17 Responses 1 Jan 28, 2011