Husband In Mid-life Crisis?I have been with my husband for 15 years and it has had its ups and downs. Currently he's in a self-proclaimed "funk", which I think could be a depression. He's not sure about our future, he's "not wired" like everyone else, could easily be alone or left alone indefinitely, and says he always sees himself alone in the end. We have 2 sons together and have a seemingly perfect marriage....get along, active social lives, no financial worries, satisfied sex life, no fights.
I don't know how much space I should give him; don't want to be naive or a doormat. This popped up almost 2 years ago, we almost separated. We made some lifestyle adjustments and things were great and right on track. I feel like its a pattern now, and there's nothing more I can give or change. I just fear it might be a repeating pattern that will eventually lead him to "having his cake and eating it too".
Lily01 41-45, F 8 Responses 1 Feb 28, 2012