He Is ControllingMy husband and I have been together for three years, and married for almost a year. When we first started dating he made it clear that he did not want me talking to any of my male friends any longer, And he would not talk to any females. I agreed but would still text some of my close friends and just delete the messages. Well it got to the point where he was slowly starting to delete people from my Facebook, So I just stopped using it for awhile. Well I ended up losing all contact with any male friends except for one. Well as the years have passed he has also stopped me from seeing my family all except for my Dad. I will try and talk to my Mom and sisters on the phone and when I do he always makes rude comments in the background, I know my family has problems but who doesn't? I can't leave the house without him, I know he has some trust issues but I have never done anything to make him feel this way. I know our relationship is unhealthy but I don't know how to change it..And I don't want to leave him. I do love him.
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