TA Newlywed

 I am in my first marriage going on two years. We were married on our first year anniversary of being together. He is a wonderful husband and father (he has custody of his 17 yr old daughter, I have an 8 yr. old and we have just had one together.
  I am truly blessed to have him because I can honestly say that I think I am a selfish, moody ***** and I do not see how he can put up with me sometimes. I have a terrible temper and have little patience (which I am trying to work on). Lucky for him, I am completely open to anything and always willing to please my husband sexually.
  I know that I may never again find someone as wonderful as him and I hope I don't mess this marriage up.
 
vanilla vanilla
26-30, F
4 Responses Jun 28, 2007

Thanks for the advice, I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. I know I would not want to be treated that way. I'm not like that all the time but I shouldn't be that way at all

Thanks for the advice, I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. I know I would not want to be treated that way. I'm not like that all the time but I shouldn't be that way at all

I agree with Jamcojay. Your husband may love you endlessly, just like my boyfriend. But I used to be a ***** myself, expecting stuff and rarely content with things. Then he flipped. I felt it was about time to change my attitude and now everything is so wonderful! He now does things for me 10X more than before and our relationship is even deeper.<br />
So, my advice: attitude check. You'll do yourself a huge favor.

Yeah I would look at changing your actions pretty soon a guy can only suck it up for so long.