WIfe Shows Too Much Cleavage At Work.
I am married going on 11 years now. We have been together almost 17. My wife is very ambitious and intelligent and has always been the main bread-winner in the family. I have always held various jobs and raised our son. Within the last 7 months, I have taken a part-time position in the same department that my wife is a director in. We have always been very careful to keep our activities separate in the office to avoid any talk of nepotism and impropriety.
Recently, though, I have noticed that my wife has been making a point of showing cleavage at work. This started over the summer and I do not ever remember her dressing for work like this before. She still dresses neatly, but her neck lines have dropped and on some days she is showing what I consider way more cleavage that is acceptable in an office or workplace. I finally spoke to her about it one morning as we were getting ready for work. She acted like I was completely overreacting and basically told me I had a problem. She continued to wear low cut blouses and the men in the office, especially her boss will just stare at her boobs quite a lot. She has always had large boobs and she has gotten heavy and they are just enormous right now.
After about a week, I mentioned to her again that I really wished she would dress a bit more professionally and I got the same response as before. She was quite irritated that I brought it up a second time.
So this brings me to last Friday.
I had to run some personal errands before work and got there a bit later than usual. The place works on a flex schedule, so that's pretty normal here. I had stopped by a cash machine to get us some money. I dropped my stuff at my cubicle and then walked to her office to give her the cash. The door was closed, but I heard very loud laughter coming from inside and I recognized it to be her and her boss who just turned 60. He's a nice guy, but he's kind of old school and he stares at any woman who has something to stare out. Anyway, I knocked on the door and then opened it to a scene that I can only describe as surreal - my wife and her boss sitting across her desk from each other just laughing uncontrollably and her two large boobs just shaking like two large bowls of jelly. Her boss was loving every second of it and she didn't mind a bit. I walked in and was speechless. She wasn't just showing cleavage, her boobs were falling out of her blouse and dancing up and down as she laughed.
I gave her the money, turned around to leave as fast as I could and as I was leaving, I looked at her and made a motion of cupping breasts and gave her an unmistakable stern look. She looked at me like she was clueless what I meant. I went back to my cubicle and tried to think straight. Did I just see what I thought I saw? Was that little scene as inappropriate, in fact, as it appeared to me? The more I thought about it the madder I got. Your reputation at your job has a lot to do with your appearance and there are many times when my wife looks trashy instead of professional.
I'm at a loss on what to do about this. She has already told me that she doesn't want to hear another word about it. I've been looking for other positions in other departments and other jobs elsewhere, but no luck for these past months.
I really don't want to be in a work environment with her any more, because I don't like seeing this side of her. I've always known that she likes attention, but I'm shocked to learn that she will bare some flesh to assure she gets it at work from the men that are around. And I definitely do not want to witness another scene like the one I walked in on last Friday.
I just want to add that for the first time in our 17 years, I have lost a measure of respect for my wife. And that is that saddest part of this story.