Not Sure How I Got Here

Have a wife who loves me but I resent a lot about her.  She is obsessive compulsive, hoards and our home is a mess.  There are a lot of good things about her, but I have trouble getting over this.

chubasco chubasco
56-60, M
1 Response Mar 13, 2010

I know what it's like obsessing over one or two qualities that you don't like about the person you're married to. I suggest you make a list about everything you love about her and then whenever you get overwhelmed by her bad traits look over that list a few times and you'll feel better :)