My Husband Does Not Trust Me...and I Did Nothing!
I have been married for five years and it is not working. When we first got married, his mother was so awful to me. There was no reason, but he never defended me. I realize that I lost some respect early on. He then went to Iraq for a year and it wasn't that bad. We spoke every day and he did get two weeks leave. Most military couples do not get that. When he came home he was so distrustful it kind of hurt my felings. He was checking cell phone and email and kept asking to be added to my bank account. I think I am entitled to some privacy and my mom always told me to keep my own bank account. He's been home for almost two years and I just caught him going through my emails again. This made so angry because he had to be sneaking around to get my password. I do not have anything to hide but I am pissed. I went back to school and finished my degree. Other than that I was always home. He has no reason to distrust me. I don't even really hang out with my friends too much. I am desprately looking for a job to get a distraction. He goes everywhere with me and is always hanging around. He is very clingy. The biggest problem is that I spend more time thinking about leaving rather than trying to work it out. Now he's talking about a baby and buying a bigger house. We are 35 and 36. I am not interested. I almost can't stand living in the same house with him anymore. Thoughts?