Strippers

 So all girls are different... Some wouldn't mind if their man were to go to a stripclub? Would yall? I know their away and that's mostly all there is to do around the bases... My man is at basic in NC and he's said that a bunch of his buddies are going on the weekends.. Should I be botherd if he went? He promised he wouldn't because he doesn't want to mess things up.. What do you guys think?

LovinMyMarine3 LovinMyMarine3
18-21
7 Responses Feb 28, 2009

Well my boyfriend and I recently had a conversation about what is considered cheating at any night club. Just set the limits so neither of you are confused when something happens. Trust hi. If you know his true chararacter is good then trust him. Everyone needs to have fun.Just let him know not to have too much without you! :P

Well my boyfriend and I recently had a conversation about what is considered cheating at any night club. Just set the limits so neither of you are confused when something happens. Trust hi. If you know his true chararacter is good then trust him. Everyone needs to have fun.Just let him know not to have too much without you! :P

hey girl!!! I live in NC as you know! I would seriously flip if my husband wanted to go. I mean if he went with me thats one thing, because i like going. But not with the guys. The Guys out here are pigs... I cant even walk into a grocery store in shorts without getting treated like a piece of meat. All Im saying is... you probably have a good man, but the marine boys that he is with just like mine are bad... lol real bad.

My wife doesn't mind if I go with the guys because she trusts me and knows I'm coming hom to her. However, I personally have the most fun taking HER with me. That's REAL fun!!

I personally wouldn't be bothered by it because I strongly believe in whatever is going to happen will happen. But definitely keep all communications open. Since it bothers you tell him. Then again if he does go to be with his friends (you don't want him to sit all alone that will only cause resentment towards you) keep your trust there and let him know what you feel comfortable with. If it makes you feel better have him call you when he leaves. There are many ways to go about this you just have to choose what way makes you most comfortable. The fact that you have even talked about it and he considers your feelings is a great sign! Don't stress yourself out.

I agree with you. I don't want to make him feel bad and him get left out if all the other guys go, but it bothers me. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Thanks!

Thanks girl I was thinking the same thing!

If your boyfriend really loved & cared about you then he woudn't even consider going to a ***** club. He sounds like he really does love you if he told you he wouldn't go cause he didn't want to screw things up.