I Am Very Fat And Want To Grow Fatter And Larger

I found this site and it appears to have friends who are looking what I want.  I am a very fat 355 pound man.  I love being large and am planning on gaining more weight.  When I was a child and teenager I was always fat.  I remember I was on my first diet when I was very young.  As I grew up, I was alwasy happy eating and was very heavy.  I remember splitting my pants for the first time when I was a cub scout because I was fat.  By middle school I was over 200 and in high school as much as 400.  I lost the weight in school and for most of my 20s and 30s kept my weight in the lower 200s.  About 15 years ago, I started to gain weight again.  I gradually kept gaining and remember going back to the gym when I had reached 280.  I saw myself in the mirror and my belly sticking out really made an impression.  I walked around the gym and could tell that I was being looked at quite a bit.  The gym had mostly very fit men and women so I am sure that seeing me that large registered.  After showering, I noticed how my size was really showing.  Over the next 10 years my weight kept increasing.  I took a new job and moved when I had reached 350.  Over the last five years my weight has been anywhere form 300 to 385.  What I enjoyed the most was the time when I passed 350 and went up to 385.  I found myself enjoying the increase in my size and how I looked.  I would walk around and notice how my large size showed in mirrors or reflective windows.  I realized that what I wanted to be was very very fat.  I took a new job and over the last year have come back down to 355. 

As I grew larger and fatter, I learned how much I liked to show off my size.  I wear my pants around my waist and tend to favor a syle that shows off my big belly above and below my belt.  I have worn as much as size 60 pants and now am at a 58 inch waist with 3 or 4XL shirts.  I like being able to shop for new clothes that look nice and are not too tight.  I want to show how fat I am in a fashionable way.  As I was at my heaviest, I realized that I was going to have to start finding new places on line to buy pants as the big and tall stores tend to stop at 60 inches. 

I am now at a point where I really want to become much fatter.  How much that is I don't know.  I want to be able to continue to walk and be active.  At my current size, I realize that most sports are not for me.  The thought of seeing me try to run around a court is funny.  I like golf, going for waks and sometmes swimming.  I love to eat.  I am a fairly good cook and when I go out I enjoy most foods.  When I reached 385, I could see how much my belly showed.  I had taken a vacation on a cruise for the first time and enjoyed the time away.  I spent much of my time eating four or five meals a day and snacking all the time.  It was a great way to relax, feed myself and read some good books.  I enjoyed relaxing by the pool or on our balcony.  By the end of the cruise, as I was putting my shorts on, I could see that I had put on weight.  When I arrived home, I realized how much - 10 pounds.  It felt great.  I am going to make sure I take more cruise vacations.

i know many people will think that my desire to gain weight and become even fatter is different.  I know that is what makes me happy and as I put on weight it made me happier.  I am lucky to have a wife who loves me very fat and will support me as I gain much more weight.  As the summer comes to an end, it will be a good time to get fatter.  It will be interesting to see where I am a year from now.  I love being very fat.  I am looking forward to getting to 400 or more. 

I put my first post here to see how the friends on this site accept me.  I am morbidly obese so i figured this was a good place to start.  I like telling my stories and my experiences with becoming very fat.
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51-55, M
24 Responses Aug 19, 2010

I'm 18.5 stones in weight and my beautiful wife wants me to get fatter, and I'm up for it myself. My wife weighs 28 stones with a lovely overhanging belly, and want to have the same. I'm desperate to give her more of my body, as she has given me. Plus we have a sex fantasy that when I get as fat as her she wants to be able to clothes swap with me. She wears mine and I wear her clothes.
So please, please, please can you give me some tips.
Thanks. FatTeeJay.

You sound amazing! My boyfriend used to be 240 pounds and now he's back down to 220... I want him to gain it back and more because I love his huge belly and the way it looks and feels and just want his clothes to get tight and his pants to not fit anymore and just feed him until he gets his belly back and more. Any good suggestions on how he can gain back the weight and keep gaining? I wish he would one day be over 280... Please help!

It is so nice to see all of the positive feedback on this discussion, it makes me very happy.

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I need your advice. I want to get really fat but all my friends are slim. I don't know what they would think of me if I got fat. My friends are my family. I can't loose them. How can I do it?

Wow i wish i was that fat

are you bigger/as big as this??? - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvyyKDfJ-t4

Everyone needs to experience the joy of obesity!

I love your attitude about it all. It took me a while to see things the right way when it comes to all this. I'm looking forward to some real size too! I'm 20 and 330lbs myself.

i am 15 years old and 134 lbs
i always want to get very fat, but i'm ashamed to tell anyone. I hope someone has some advice for my problem. (or I just wait untill I'm adult)

Get huge if pepole don't like it WHO GIVES A RATS TAIL

It's nice to see someone confident in who they are!

It's nice to see someone doesent care what other people think about them because Im 25 I'm 400 lbs and I like being fat to

I wish I was as fat as you! Bring on the mashed potatoes and gravy!

I enjoy being very large - how I look and how I feel. I like the feeling of having a very large belly and being able to show off my size.

That's the best part!

Good for you that you're happy with yourself (not many people seem to be, these days.) Sorry if this is rude, i'm just courious; what in particular do you enjoy about being fat?

Thanks for the comment. I appreciate and agree with your perspective. Happy I am as I continue to enjoy my getting fatter journey.

Fun isn't it?

I think it is great that you are happy and comfortable with the way you are. You seem to have a very positive outlook on life and I think that is terrific. I don't think that the size that a person is matters at all. What counts in my book is how a person acts and treats others and you seem to have an abundance of positivety. I wish you all the best and don't worry about those who put you down. What is most important is for you to be happy with you.

Thanks for the comment. The key is to be happy the way you are and want to be. I am glad your husband likes you fat. I know I like my wife fat as well and she is a little shorter than you and weighs 260. I love the way she looks and feels. She likes the way I look and id supportive of how fat I am and want to be. Good luck and keep it up. I have to deal with similar family members as well. Others in my family are not fat and not really health freaks. They have commented on my expanding girth. I do have family history on one side of several large men so that is encouraging. I simply tell my family I am happy and love the way I am.

That's the way to do it!

Hello!!! I am glad to read that you are comfortable with yourself, that's what really matter. I am 5'2 and 200 pounds, 11 months ago I was 170 but I've been gaining weight quite fast, the reason? I love to eat too!!! and my husband gets very turned on by my body, the bigger the better for him so every single day he cooks for me big amounts of food with lots of butter.<br />
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I am happy to know that I make my husband happy but my family is giving me a really hard time, all of them are health freaks, they are in shape and they work out every single day so, all I get to hear from them is that I am way to fat and that I should be on a diet because I don't look good, my dad even bought me a spinning bicycle!! but my husband keeps telling me that I shouldn't lose any weight because I am the sexiest woman he has ever seen on his entire life.<br />
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I am starting to get used to my new body and feel good about myself, your story is inspiring for me, thanks!!!!!!

Thanks poofbelly for the support. There are always those who do not understand why we love being fat and gaining weight. What it really means is that despite their negative comments, there was something that attracted their attention. As long as my large size and fat body gets people to look, I have succeeded.

Yes, that negative person is VERY wrong! Fat Admirers worship our fat bodies with an intensity that a thin person could never imagine! I have found lots of positive and encouraging people on this web site. I just block the negative ones and I have only had to remove a couple of negative comments on my stories; not too bad for the volume of people on here!

Thanks for the comments above. I appreciate hearing from those who share similar views. For those that do not, that is their choice. And he is wrong about his comment. Time for a new story or experience.

Love your vision and your positive attitude. It's wonderful that you are enjoying your lifestyle and freedom of eating delicious food and embracing a fantastic plumping, well-fattenned, sexy physic that will be of tremendous enjoyment and pleasure for you and your wife. yum, yum a real homerun.<br />
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I'm enjoying my growing belly, but like you went on a 1st interview for a very visible position and wonder how much impact my 280+ body will have in a strategic leadership role. It is what it is; and there is something to be said about being true to oneself. Yet, I have never been so excited about a larger belly, especially since I've been alot thinner most of my life.<br />
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Can't wait to hear and see your weight gainning progress as it evolves and there are many people here that are enjoying a larger, better, rounder body. Keep indulging and be happy & content along the way.

It's refreshing to hear someone that accepts themselves for who they are. I am a large woman, and my 100lb Dr., is wonderful but does not "get it". I'm in good health, work full time, stay active, and I'm attractive and dress nice. So, for those people that can't understand our acceptance of ourselves, I say worry about your own life!