Sexual MismatchIt is hard, being a woman and having to deal with a very strong sex drive. I feel unwanted and unattractive to my husband because he looks at me with that "not again already" look when I want to have sex, which is often. He never has to go beyond his comfort level for sex because I want it so often, he never goes without it. But I spend much of time frustrated because I do not get sex as often as I need, much less want. By the third day of going without, I begin getting frustrated and crabby because I am feeling that urge and desire. I need sex a minimum of every other day to feel content. And this is just talking about frequency, I haven't even touched the surface on the variety and more kinky forms of sex I desire that he thinks is "wierd". He likes straight vanilla sex, I enjoy a more spicy sex life. I just hate the way I feel being mismatched sexually, unwanted, unappreciated, and undesirable.
LadyKatherine 36-40 12 Responses 4 Feb 9, 2008