We Buried The Hatchet Today - And Not In Each Other!!I called and spoke to the ex today. He actually picked up the phone which really shocked me.
We talked for an hour and forty minutes.
I laughed, cried, he laughed, we talked. I told him everything that was on my mind - nothing left.
I was able to obtain the much needed closure to help me move on from where I was.
I know that this year I am working with my therapist to develop who I am, what I need and what boundaries are necessary and safe.
I was able to tell the ex what really hurt me, that yes, I am angry and time may heal that.
He told me we could always be friends. We still do care for each other - but we can not be together.
I told him that I may be able to be friends sometime in the future, but not all at once.
I needed this closure.
NeopolitanSkye 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 Mar 1, 2012