I am married now for 25 years. My husband while being a good and loving person, is very negative about generally everything. We have had more financial downs since we married than ups. I am now determined to become debt free, because everytime I think about my debt I become depressed.

I have had to leave my home and seek employment out of my country. I utilise almost every cent towards paying of my monthly expenses back home, and i am left with very little money to pay off my debt. My husband works on and off, so I get very little help from him. I have now realised that if I want to be happy I have to do something about it myself, not expect it from others. My problem is that I start of projects very entusiasticly and the minute there is a problem I want to give up. Is there anyone out there that can help me find ways, that i can keep myself motivated on a daily basis.

Karena304 Karena304
41-45, F
1 Response Mar 11, 2010

There are task that anyone person can do and accomplish, but a project take time and multiple people to accomplish in many case, know the difference. You can climb a mountain okay, but have someone else care the baggage.