I Am New To Taken In Hand
My husband said "you got it coming when I have the strength". Hes sick with the flu :( and for me its the worst time of the month. Go figure! Why does this have happened together like this? He got sick out of no where. I have went and got him medicine, let him rest, got him food. I have been keeping myself quite. (for the most part, im trying)
We are new to this and he said he would adjust my Chore list and write some rules down. So we have a little bit more to work on. He was going to do this Sunday night. He didnt though because he is sick. Im not going to say anything because I want him to rest and not have to worry about it. BUT because Im not 100% I havnt been doing much either. Dishes are slipping,I havnt dusted etc. All the hard (kinda hard) work last week now does not show.
Today while he is resting I'll get caught up on somethings. I know that he is still trying to do his role. He has still made me talk when he sees my face shows something is wrong. He still gives me a look and even made me nervous saying a spanking is coming.
So you understand my husband a little better. He is NEVER sick. Even if he gets a little cold, it does not stop him from doing anything. He normally wont even say anything is wrong. With this cold (I think its the flu) he is worn down, muscle aches, face bright right, high fever (by touch), Sneezing, coughing, exhausted, constantly napping (when not coughing). I feel so bad. Im not used to him being out like this and I just wish I wasnt having my "time of the month". Im used to the backaches, feeling tired, stomach cramps, headaches,being cranky. But some months are worse then others. This is one of those bad months.
I guess im feeling like this is a little set back. I hope when we are both feeling better, he whips everything back into shape. (no pun intended) Just made a call to the dr for antibiotics. Hoping it at least takes the edge off for him. I hate seeing him so sick.Wish I could just take the cold for him so hes all better. But I guess the best I can do (now that I realize what im doing wrong) is try my hardest to stay up on chores, try to keep my mood under control, continue to do my best to making him comfortable. Im sure this wont get me out of his furture promise. But I think it will allow me to be the best that I can be even when im not 100%.
We are new to this and he said he would adjust my Chore list and write some rules down. So we have a little bit more to work on. He was going to do this Sunday night. He didnt though because he is sick. Im not going to say anything because I want him to rest and not have to worry about it. BUT because Im not 100% I havnt been doing much either. Dishes are slipping,I havnt dusted etc. All the hard (kinda hard) work last week now does not show.
Today while he is resting I'll get caught up on somethings. I know that he is still trying to do his role. He has still made me talk when he sees my face shows something is wrong. He still gives me a look and even made me nervous saying a spanking is coming.
So you understand my husband a little better. He is NEVER sick. Even if he gets a little cold, it does not stop him from doing anything. He normally wont even say anything is wrong. With this cold (I think its the flu) he is worn down, muscle aches, face bright right, high fever (by touch), Sneezing, coughing, exhausted, constantly napping (when not coughing). I feel so bad. Im not used to him being out like this and I just wish I wasnt having my "time of the month". Im used to the backaches, feeling tired, stomach cramps, headaches,being cranky. But some months are worse then others. This is one of those bad months.
I guess im feeling like this is a little set back. I hope when we are both feeling better, he whips everything back into shape. (no pun intended) Just made a call to the dr for antibiotics. Hoping it at least takes the edge off for him. I hate seeing him so sick.Wish I could just take the cold for him so hes all better. But I guess the best I can do (now that I realize what im doing wrong) is try my hardest to stay up on chores, try to keep my mood under control, continue to do my best to making him comfortable. Im sure this wont get me out of his furture promise. But I think it will allow me to be the best that I can be even when im not 100%.
By:
silencedshy
Age:
26-30
,
Female
