Lost And Confused

My husband just recently left me saying he just needed a few days, now just after 3 days he says we are over, he says he's just not happy while the whole time everyone, myself included thought we were fine. We never even fight. We've been together for 4 years, married for 2, he is my life. I have suggested everything and talked to everyone, he says nothing will help. All he says is he Loves me but not in love and he cares for me.
Kmw12 Kmw12
36-40
5 Responses May 25, 2012

Thanks dizznee, ive begged pleaded, prayed, left him alone and nothin, he says there's nobody else but there's no other reason I don't think that would make him do this. Never been this hurt in my life. Ugh! How to get through this!

Does anyone know what I can do at this point??? I'm losing my mind!!! Don't eat, don't sleep, my husband talk to me yesterday for like 10 minutes. He says he has no intention of ever coming back, he doesn't want to. And he doesn't love me. But just a week ago he was telling me we were forever and he loved me too much to ever get tired of me. He's been amazing for 4 years and overnight he's gone. This just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. I have 2 kids from a previous marriage and they are devastated, he was more of a father to them than their real father ever was and my oldest girl can't stop crying either. It's killing me inside for me and my kids, they already lost one dad. We all want him back home but he says he's not happy and not gonna be. I just don't know!!!! This is insane!!!

I feel your pain so much and my wife has recently left me with my son after 18 years of marriage. I miss her so much and want her back. Sadly, like your situation I am going out of mind too but I am so helpless. Wish there was something we could do to get our spouses back. Good luck

Give it time. It's too early to know at this point. Been there before, btw. :-)

Thanks sometimes just a few kind words helps a little. I'm not ready to give up on this even if he is.

That old chestnut about loves and cares yet he is prepared to walk away from you. I don't believe that the person doing the breaking up realises the hurt and anguish it causes without even trying to work at improving whatever is the real reason they broke up. Be strong my friend, Dizznee