I Am Newly Separated
how many times can you argue about the same things and feel the same judgement being cast on you before it becomes to much to bare? to flinch when your husband touches you to go to bed much later so he'll be asleep by the time you go, to hope that one of the kids stirs so you have to go attend to them. He has been gone 1 month still comes over regularly to see the kids, we're friends we talk better i guess separated the when we live as a married couple.
Disagreement can be a damaging thing, i hated the way he yelled at the kids, the name calling, the aggression when they didn't listen, never physical but verbal.
What I did during the day, was the house clean enough for when he got home from work? always the thought "had i done enough" how much had a spent that day if any?
7 yrs married, I had lost my mother tragically only two yrs ago he can not show me any compassion or empathy this i needed desperately from my husband. Now my heart strings are pulling have we done the right thing in separating? I didn't want this for my children.
I do feel less stress pressure and no judgement.
Do you ever really know if it was the right thing to do.....Confused........
Disagreement can be a damaging thing, i hated the way he yelled at the kids, the name calling, the aggression when they didn't listen, never physical but verbal.
What I did during the day, was the house clean enough for when he got home from work? always the thought "had i done enough" how much had a spent that day if any?
7 yrs married, I had lost my mother tragically only two yrs ago he can not show me any compassion or empathy this i needed desperately from my husband. Now my heart strings are pulling have we done the right thing in separating? I didn't want this for my children.
I do feel less stress pressure and no judgement.
Do you ever really know if it was the right thing to do.....Confused........
By:
cookieconfused
Age:
31-35
,
Female
