Im newly separated from my wife of 4 years and not by choice. I got into a car accident and she kept the insurance money. She left me to struggle to pay for school on my own without even a way to my job. All because I told her 6 months ago that i was sick of our life and wanted to change it news years day she didn't reciprocate so i gave her my ring and told her I wasnt in love anymore. I do love her but im not in love and i dont want to waste my time with someone who doesnt want to fix our marriage. Talk about a womans scorn.